episode 47: defining your priorities

i think on a previous episode, i spoke about how i’m always pushing several balls forward, very slowly, but it’s happening. some balls roll forward for days and weeks, months even, while some balls get left behind. i’ll glance over my shoulder at those couple of sad balls, but instead of abandoning them like i probably should, i give them a couple of nudges forward, hoping that will be enoughRead More →

episode 46: i'm good, thank you for asking

hey everybody.   i was going to make this episode about PRIORITIES, but while thinking about these priorities, i realized that i’ve neglected to check up on all of you.   it’s been a while since someone has asked me how i am. and considering the title of this podcast, i’m not really sure the last time i’ve asked how you all are doing, not just on the surface, inRead More →

episode 44: catholic guilt (or just regular guilt)

does anybody else suffer from sudden, immense pangs of guilt from decisions that you made with your own best interests in mind?like, all you’re doing is doing something for yourself, not anything crazy or illegal, you’re just making a mildly selfish decision. we all do this. but then i do it, and i hear that voice in the back of my head talkin shit. this happens to me all theRead More →

episode 40: fomo or bust

i think it’s time for us to get off social media. you are a brand online. and if you’re not the brand, you are the product.it’s in everyone’s best interest to put our best faces on online. it’s the only thing we actually have any control over in life. your behavior sometimes exhibits that perfectly. have you ever opened up incognito mode to search for something or access a certainRead More →

recorded this while i was sick af. the things you sacrifice for a little asian persuasion… no pigeons. or scrubs. whatever you guys call it these days. recognize one when you see them, and learn to say no. hey. stop loaning people money.idk who needs to hear this, but stop it now.listen, i know it sounds greedy or stingy or whatever, but you know the difference between helping someone who’sRead More →

everything is temporary. that job that you don’t like. the car you’re driving.the apartment you’re renting.the bad day you’re having. your favorite jacket eventually ends up in the donation pile. you crack your favorite pipe.  your friends die. dog runs away. it’s all temporary, for better or for worse.  sometimes we take what we have for granted. we become so comfortable with our situation that we don’t always appreciate what weRead More →

as 2019 shuts the fuck down, i wanna close with some words from uncle snoop. as snoop dogg said, i wanna thank me. i wanna thank me for believing in me. i wanna thank me for doing all this hard work. i wanna thank me for having no days off.i wanna thank me for never quitting.  i wanna thank me for always being a giver and always trying to give more thanRead More →